Reaching the Success You Deserve

LIVE YOUR DREAMS is a motivational bestseller you will read that will provoke you to start pursuing your dream immediately. Of course, this is what a motivational bestselling book should do.

Written by Les brown, world’s leading motivational speaker, author  and trainer, Live Your  Dream doesn’t  only  assure you that you can make your dreams come true, it also instructs you on what you should do to make your dreams come true.

There are lots of success principles deliberated upon; and out of these principles, let me share with you just six out of the principles:

1.     Develop a Do-or-die Attitude

Success is a function of attitude. Master Motivator, Zig Ziglar said: “Your attitude determines your altitude.” The manner we go about pursuing our dream lives much to be desired. This accounts for the little achievement we record in life.

But Brown is saying, for us to make our dream come true, we must Develop a do-or-die attitude. “Burn your ship if you have to,” he said.

Buttressing his point, he narrated the story of a general who led his troop across the sea to invade a nation which troops outnumbered his. When the General observed that his troop were frightened and reluctant to face the enemy’s troops, he gave an order that they should burn their ships that conveyed them to the territory.

Thereafter, he commanded, “We win or we die!” with no way of retreating, they were motivated to fight. They fought and they won in spite of the fact that they were outnumbered!

The lesson brown is teaching is that if we develop a “do-or-die attitude” in the pursuit of our dream, nothing can defeat us; we will make our dreams come true.

2.   Do More than You are Paid

Our attitude to work is of paramount importance to our success in life. Our input determines our output. And our wages depends on our output. Whether we are self-employed or employees, the fact is, those who get promoted or who get ahead are those who put in more effort than they are earning.

You may think no one is noticing how you go about your job, business, or professional practice, but the fact is, there’s someone out there taking notice of your contribution. This behoves you to “Do more than you are paid for.” By so doing, you not only acquire more experience, you attract to yourself higher pay, promotion or higher paying jobs.

When an establishment is downsizing, the only sacred cows that will not lose their jobs are those that are contributing more than they are paid.

3.   Set Standards for Yourself

One of the qualities truly successful persons have in common is that they set standards for themselves. A man that does not set a standard for himself will always settle for anything. People who settle for anything will never go beyond the level of mediocrity.

Never settle for anything, never settle for average. Set standard of excellence for yourself. This is the standard all successful people set for themselves. They want the best in anything. When your standard is very high, your quality of life will equally be high.

Brown’s advice is: “Develop the habit of setting standards that others will measure themselves by.”

4.   Go Where there is No Part

Come up with a novel idea today and experts will tell you it is unrealistic since no such idea has ever been implemented. The fact that an idea is new and has never been implemented before does not mean it is unrealistic.

People normally take the path that leads to somewhere but rarely go to where there is no path. The reason is because they believe it is easier to go to a place where there is a path to follow.

But on the journey to success, it is not necessary that you go where the path may lead. You can take off any day, anywhere, anytime, and leave a trail. 

Where there are paths today, there were times there was no paths there. Some persons took it upon themselves to create the paths which others are following today. Get up, roll up your sleeves and start charting a course for yourself, leaving a trail for others to follow.

As brown advises, “Make this your   motto: Do not go where the path may lead, but go where there is no path and leave a trail.”

5.   Nothing is Too Much When  Much is at Stake

A famous sports coach once said that most athletes do not give their best and that they always reserve their best within them even in crucial tournaments. And this accounts for the dismal performance of such athletes in tournaments. Super successful athletes do not gamble with the idea of putting in little effort in any tournament. They go all out.

They know that much is at stake and if they must achieve much, they must go all out and put in their best.  So, the lesson to grab here is: IF MUCH IS AT STAKE AND YOU REALLY WANT IT, THEN, YOU MUST GO ALL OUT AND PUT IN YOUR BEST. Only the best is good enough.

6.   Embrace the Morning

“People bound for greatness,” says Brown, “jump out of bed and embrace the morning.”

Dear reader, what is your passion? What is it you want to achieve? If you are serious about life, there must be something that will inspire you to get out of bed early to pursue it.

If nothing inspires you to jump out of your bed to strive for greatness, then, it could be that you are not yet ready to become the best that God wants you to be.

As Brown puts it, “You don’t tell truly HUNGRY people to do their homework or to set high standards or to go at it massively. They realize those are essential steps in reaching their goals.”

The   keyword here is: HUNGRY. To achieve greatness, we must desire it passionately. It is only then that we can have the motivation to jump out of bed early and embrace the great day that the Lord has made.

Until I come your way soon, go and live victoriously!

Recommendation

The journey to success   is never smooth. Whether   we like it or not, we will always encounter adversity, difficulty, opposition, and obstacles that may weaken our morale and make us turn back. As such a time, what you need to get back on track and continue your journey is MOTIVATION. Without motivation, success may be a   mirage.

Grab a copy of Les Brown’s bestselling book, LIVE YOUR DREAMS. LIVE YOUR DREAMS will not only help you find your passion, it will get you agitated, restless and provoke you to achieve greatness in life.  

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Winning Combination for Outstanding Success

I was in the law office of a senior colleague recently and had the opportunity of watching one of the programmes of Emmanuel Television, a DSTV platform.

In the programme, it appeared to me that Prophet T.B. Joshua’s Synagogue Church of All Nations was celebrating some of their members who performed excellently in their respective fields. Among these members were two young prodigies whose performance were outstanding and worthy of emulation.

One of them is a twenty-three year-old female graduate of University of Lagos who bagged first-class degree in electrical and electronics engineering. The other prodigy is a member of Nigeria’s under-17 National soccer team who was decorated for his excellent performance in the under-17 World Cup. Yes, I still remember the footballer’s name. he is Isah Emmanuel.

The church was very proud of their achievement. I remember Prophet T.B. Joshua expressed joy at the members’ performance and encouraged other members to strive for excellence.

One of the remarkable moments in the occasion was when the twenty-three year-old female first-class graduate was given the microphone to bare her mind to the entire congregation. In her speech, she disclosed the secret of her outstanding academic performance. According to her, it was Prophet T.B. Joshua who encouraged her to excel. The prophet encouraged her to “work as if all depended on her and to pray as if all depended on God.”

This child prodigy held tenaciously to the words of her prophet. She studied as if all depended on her and prayed as if all depended on God. In the end, she came out with first-class result!

What a great inspiration to all of us! Success is a function of principles. When God created the world, he laid down principles for us to apply in order to achieve great success in life. Sometimes, we will need to apply only one of these principles; while at most other times, we will have to combine two or more of these principles before we can achieve outstanding success.

If our goal is to achieve outstanding success, then, we must combine certain principles. And these principles, when narrowed down to two, will find expression in the word of encouragement given to the first-class female graduate by her prophet which are:

1.   Work as if everything depends on you; and

2.   Pray as if everything depends on God.

These two principles above really bring to light why some people achieve outstanding success while others don’t. The mistake we make most times is that we try to substitute one of these principles for the other, instead of combining the duo. It is either we are working hard or we are praying hard. We fail to realize that it is the combination of work and prayer that bring outstanding results.

The Place of Work

Nature demands that we should work in order to succeed. To achieve outstanding success without working for it, is mere wishful thinking. It is like the omelet. You cannot make an omelet without breaking the egg. You can’t achieve worthwhile success without putting in great effort.

A student who will not read and study what he is being taught and he is expecting to bag first-class degree or distinction is like a man who wants to reap where did not sow. A student who wants to earn distinction must be ready to work for it.

If you belong to the category of people who think or believe that you don’t have to labour to get what you want, I urge you to change your orientation quickly. There is no such thing as something for nothing. You should establish it in your mind that if you want anything in life, you must work for it.

Don’t be a joker in the pack. Virtually all successful people worked hard to get to where they are today. Most, if not all of them, worked harder than others to be ahead of the rest.

The Place of Prayer

However, hard work is not the ultimate. It is possible to work as hard as the super successful people do or even harder and yet not make any headway. It is possible to be as brilliant and hardworking as the top scorers in the class and yet not make a distinction.

You see, as far as success is concerned, hard work alone is not enough to guarantee outstanding success. You need a complement or a combination to guarantee your success. This is where prayer comes in.

If you are doing everything humanly possible to achieve great success in life, and success look like a mirage, then, it means you need to apply a winning combination that will guarantee outstanding success. This combination is “work” and “prayer.”

You should not only work, you should also pray fervently. Prayer is the key. Prayer is the master key that unlocks every door of success. However, the mistake many of us make is that we see prayer as the only thing we should do in order to succeed.

Prayer alone is not enough. Just as God commands us to pray, He also commands us to work. Neither work nor prayer is indispensable. Both are essential for the accomplishment of great goals.

On Work

On work as a principle for success, the Book of Success, the Bible says:

a.   “Be ye strong therefore, and let not your hands be weak: for your work shall be rewarded” (2 Chron. 15:7);

b.   “Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might” (Eccl. 9:10);

c.   “He that tilleth his land shall have plenty of bread: but he that followeth after vain persons shall have poverty enough” (Prov. 28:19); and

d.   “He becometh poor that dealeth with a slack hand: but the hand of the diligent maketh rich” (Prov. 10:4).

On Prayer

On prayer as a principle for success, the Bible says:

a.   “And he spake a parable unto them to this end, that men ought always to pray, and not to faint” (Luke 18:1);

b.   “Pray without ceasing” (1 Thess. 5:17);

c.   “Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them” (Mark 11:24); and

d.   “And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it” (John 14:13-14).

In the light of the above Bible passages, Propher T.B. Joshua’s utterance that one should “work as if all depends on one and pray as if all depends on God” is the ultimate winning combination for outstanding success.

These are the same success principles that is being preached here at CFVL (Centre for Victorious Living). Work alone may not take you far. So also is prayer. Prayer alone is not enough. If you are praying when you should work, your prayer will never take the place of work and so may not avail you. If you are working, working and working when you should be praying, praying and praying, the work will never avail you.

“Work” is tantamount to doing the best you can while “prayer” is asking God to crown your effort with success. Now, the principles of “work” and “prayer” are intertwined. You cannot separate one from the other. They go hand-in-hand.

Dear reader, are you looking for the ultimate combination for achieving the incredible? Then, look no further! This combination havs been delivered to you in this article. “WORK AS IF ALL DEPENDS ON YOU; PRAY AS IF ALL DEPENDS ON GOD.”

Like the female first-class graduate, when you work as if all depends on you and you pray as if all depends on God, every obstacle will be turned to steppingstone, every limitation will become an opportunity and every closed door will lead to discoveries of many open-doors!

I urge you to apply this God-approved powerful combination today and you will achieve outstanding success in every area of your pursuit. Till I come your way soon, go and live victoriously!  

It pays to Fight on Doggedly!

Prior to the US presidential election recently concluded, everything looked as if the battle has been fought and won. It was as though Donald Trump will lose; it was as though Hilary Clinton would win. As they move from one part of the US to another campaigning and soliciting the votes of the electorates, people’s response pointed to Hillary Clinton as the 1^st female and 45^th US president. Clinton was even leading until the final day of the election.

You may not be wrong if you thought that Trump would lose. By his orientation and from his utterances, his hatred for the Blacks, Latin Americans, Arabs, etc is obvious. His utterances depits him as a racist. And racism is what Americans seem to condemn. At a point, some of his own party members who did not share his view distanced themselves from him.

To many Americans, Trump’s defeat was inevitable and Clinton’s victory is certain. Even Clinton’s supporters who gathered together to celebrate her victory were sure she would win the election. It was only at the dying moment when they realized that Trump would triumph that they “evaporated.”

Some of Clinton’s supporters wept bitterly when it was announced that Trump had won. This goes to show the credibility of Clinton’s candidacy, the people’s loyalty and wish. But alas! Their wish was not to be.

Trump on the other hand was not so sure he would win the election, but he was determined to fight on doggedly. From Trump’s utterances, you would think getting to the White House was a mirage for him. Trump has always been like that. He is not a pretender. He always expresses himself they way he feels without caring whose ox is gored.

To all intents and purposes, Trump’s speech was enough to deny him access to the White House, yet he got there!

There are some lessons to learn from Trump’s victory. Let’s discuss them briefly:

1.   If God Ordains that You Will Get to a Position, Nothing Will Change it

This point summarises the victory of Trump in the recently concluded US presidential election. You may call it “destiny,” “fate” or “predestination.” They are happening all around us, but it’s just that we are not adverting our mind to the happenings. Obama’s first and second victory present vivid illustration of the fact that if God wills that you should get to a position, nothing can hold you back. Years ago, in Rivers State of Nigeria, a man did not contest election yet he became Governor of Rivers State! If you knew how desperate aspirants were, if you realise the struggles, the sacrifices and the efforts aspirants made trying to become governor of their state, you will realise that becoming a governor without contesting in an election is a miracle!

The lesson is clear: IF GOD ORDAINS THAT YOU WILL GET TO A POSITION, NOTHING CAN CHANGE IT.

      

2.   Your Past Doesn’t Matter

The second lesson here is that as far as your future or destiny is concerned, your past doesn’t matter. Both Trump and Clinton had their weaknesses. There were allegations of Clinton’s dishonesty traced to her emails (though not proved). Trump on the other hand was prosecuted under the Federal Law of America for his act of discriminating against nonwhites in refusing to let his properties to them.

Despite their weak points, they won their party’s primaries and became candidates for the US election. Talk about the past, every person has a dirty past. But our past does not determine our future. I think one reason our past doesn’t matter is that nobody is perfect. We all have our weak points. If God were to consider our past and use it as a criteria, nobody would merit any good thing in life.

The lesson here is: DO NOT LET YOUR PAST DETERMINE YOUR FUTURE. LEARN TO FORGIVE AND FORGET. GOD IS NOT CONSIDERING YOUR PAST. IF HE WERE, YOU WON’T BE WHERE YOU ARE TODAY     

3.   Take the Risk

Someone once said: “THE GREATEST RISK IS NOT TAKING A RISK.” Imagine what would happen if Trump had quit during the early stage of the election when it appeared the odds were against him, when Clinton was leading. Of course, he wouldn’t have become the 45^th president of the US. For Trump who is more of a business man than a politician, contesting the presidential election is a risky one – he may not win. Yet, he took the risk.

Clinton, a senator and politician to the core, also had her own risk to take. If she won the election, she would become the 1^st female American president. If she doesn’t, her party, The Democrat, would relinquish power to Turmp’s Republican.

Losing is not the greatest risk. Unfortunately, this is what we are always afraid of. We are always thinking: “What if I lose?” “What if I don’t win?” The fear of failure is what is holding us down in defeat. NOT TAKING A RISK IS THE GREATEST RISK. Our thinking should be: “What if I win?” “What if I succeed?” You have little or nothing to lose if you fail, but you have everything to gain if you win. This is the thought pattern of supersuccessful people: they don’t think about failure; they think about success.

The lesson here is: DON’T LET FEAR OF FAILURE HOLD YOU BACK FROM TRYING. YOU MAY FAIL, BUT THERE IS NO HARM IN TRIAL. IT IS FAILURE TO MAKE AN ATTEMPT AT SUCCESS THAT IS THE GREATEST RISK    

   

4.   It Pays to Fight on

You don’t win, if you quit. But you have every chance of winning if you keep doing the best you can. Both Trump and Clinton were dogged fighters. They had equal chances of winning.  They fought gallantly. That is the spirit! Trump particularly fought on doggedly even when it appeared he was going to lose to Clinton. Clinton also kept herself on track in her attempt to become the 1^st female American president.

What is it you are aspiring to be or achieve? Are you willing to put in the best you can? Or will you give up when it appears you are going to lose? Sticking to the fight when the fight gets toughest is what will earn you the victory you desire.

Get up and keep fighting now. And like Trump, as you fight on doggedly, you will eventually realise that it pays to fight on and never to give up!

Until I come your way soon, go and live victoriously!      

Jessica Cox: 4 Lessons from a Champion in the Game of Life

In the game of life, we have three categories of people. We have the champions, the losers, and the spectators. Champions are those who overcome and achieve outstanding success. Losers are not necessarily those who fail or are defeated, or those who encounter setbacks. Even champions at one point in time or the other do fail, suffer defeat, or encounter setbacks. What distinguishes a champion from a loser is that while a champion never quits whenever he loses, a loser quits as soon as he loses or encounters setbacks. Losers are, therefore, those who quit, and because they quit, they have no record of great achievement.

 

Spectators, on the other hand, are those who neither belong to the category of champions nor to the losers. They are simply watchers. They are there to watch the champions and the losers. When a person wins, they chant:”Hosanna! Hosanna!” and when a person quits, they chant: “crucify him! Crucify him! That is the spectators’ stock-in-trade.

The category you belong to determines your status in life. Yes, everybody wants to be a champion and the truth is, everybody can become a champion, provided everyone is willing to do what they champion do to win in the game of life.

Recently, in the course of my research into the lives of champions, I had cause to draw inspiration from the story of Jessica Cox, the first pilot without arms. What she uses to fly plane is her legs.

Jessica was born without arms. It was a “rare congenital disease”, though before her birth, her mother did series of tests which showed that there was nothing wrong with her.

In the midst of this disability, Jessica refused to yield to frustration and discouragement. She refused to become a spectator in the game of life; she also refused to quit.

And because she refused to quit, she recorded remarkable achievements, which many able-bodied men cannot achieve.

Below is a record of her exploit:

• She writes with her feet
•  She types 25 words per minute
•  She drives her car with her feet
•  She brushes her hair with her feet
•  She talks on her phone using her feet
•  She was a former dancer
•  She has a double black belt in Tai Kwon-Do
•  She has a no-restrictions driving licence
•  She is a psychology graduate
•  She is the first pilot with no arms
•  Many more.

 

 

Here are two comments made about Jessica on the Interne:

“Wow what a warrior. She is amazing!”

“I thought we men we’re the ones with balls. She puts us to shame. Good on u girl.”

What lessons can we learn from this champion in the game of life? Below are four lessons every person wishing to be a champion in the game of life must imbibe:

1. Conquer the Wars Within

To be a champion in the game of life, you must first conquer the wars within. The wars within are your feeling of helplessness, self-pity, despair, fear, feeling of inferiority, etc.Jessica was faced with all these and more, yet she refused to surrender. Giving up is the easiest thing to do. This is the lot of losers, not champions.

 

You need to work on yourself. Cultivate the ability to handle your negative emotions. This is what emotional intelligence is all about. Stop complaining, stop pitying yourself, and stop giving excuses. Start looking inward to discover your potentialities and talents. These are what you should focus on. These are what you need to triumph in the game of life.

2. Have a Sense of Pride

People who have sense of pride will never do anything that would lower their self-esteem. I have seen able-bodied individual (persons who have arms and legs) ask for alms on the streets and motor parks. I have also seen youths who have taken to crimes. It is not the circumstances that make them to opt for criminal activities. They choose to become what they are, as an easy way out of their predicament.

 

Anthony Robbins, the great motivational speaker and writer, said: “Successful people don't have fewer problems than unsuccessful people.”

As a matter of fact, successful people have more problems to contend with than the unsuccessful ones. The bigger the problems or challenges, the bigger the success ahead. But it is your ability to overcome these problems or challenges that makes you a champion. Don’t surrender to problems or challenges, confront them. Draw upon your God-given abilities, potentialities, and talents. Have a sense of pride. Run away from anyting that will make you to live a wretched, hopeless, and inglorious life.

 

Strive for noble deeds. Refuse to be a mediocre. Set great goals for yourself and strive to achieve them. When you have sense of pride, you will not do things that will lower your self-esteem.

3. Empower Yourself        

In the game of life, you cannot win laurels unless you are well-prepared for the tournament. Jessica became a champion in the game of life because she was fully prepared and contested in the game. The starting point to becoming a champion in the game of life is empowerment. The more you empower yourself, the greater your chances of success. You can empower yourself by going to school to bag a degree in the course of your choice. If you already possess a bachelor’s degree, go for your Masters; if you are a Master’s degree holder, go for your PHD.

You can also empower yourself by going for skill acquisition training. In this ICT age, you cannot afford not to be computer literate. There are many institutes all over the placer running ICT courses. Consider computer engineering, software engineering, graphic design, web design and development. There are many other skills you can learn, depending on your area of interest, and how lucrative such skills are in your locality. So, when choosing skill to learn, consider what you are passionate about and how lucrative the skill is in your locality.

4. No Limitations except the Ones You Set for Yourself

Every loser in the game of life has one excuse or the other to give for his failure in life. A champion does not give excuse for any failure or setback he suffers, because he does not believe anything can hinder him from winning in the game.

 

Jessica has proved that there are no limitations in the game of life. The only limitations are the ones you set for yourself. No wonder, Epictetus said: “Men are disturbed not by things but by the view they take of things.”

If there are limitations on your way to success, it is because of your perspective about those things that you call "limitations." In practical terms, there are no limitations in the game of life. If you are limited, it is because you allow yourself to be limited by the thing you call limitation. There is ability in disability! Jessica has proved it! The ability in you is a thousand times greater than any disability or any “limitations.”

 

What are those things you think are disabilities or limitations restricting you from winning in the game of life? Take a pen and a sheet of paper and write them down. Then, speak to the paper as follows: ‘From today, you are no longer limitations to my success in life. There are no such things as “limitations.” My God-given ability is a thousand times greater than you.’ 

After this, you tear the paper to pieces or burn it. Whenever the thought or feeling of these “limitations” comes, just ignore and refuse to believe them.

And finally, keep focusing on the thousands of things you can do and ignore the rest. Believe in your abilities and use them to the maximum.

As you do these, it is my hope that, like Jessica, you will also do something great that will astound your generation. And until I come your way soon, go and live victoriously!  

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